What you need to know before masturbating your man!
Masturbation is sometimes still mistakenly viewed as an “unnatural” practice. In reality, masturbation is normal and even beneficial for health. Additionally, masturbation isn’t always done alone: you can masturbate together, as a couple, or with a partner… Here, we’ll focus on male masturbation: how to masturbate a man properly?
Men control their masturbation; they certainly know better than you how to touch themselves and what brings them to orgasm. However, sex is often better when done with a partner: you can introduce your man to the pleasure of a “handjob,” which he doesn’t fully control, and give him an orgasm that’s much stronger than what he’d experience on his own. Follow our advice!
How to masturbate a man properly? Listen to him!
The following applies to male masturbation, but also to good foreplay in general, and even to any sexual relationship: you must listen to your partner. We can’t emphasize enough the importance of mutual respect in sex and the benefits of listening to each other’s desires to achieve maximum arousal and pleasure!
Listen to his desires: There’s no one magical method to arouse someone. The handjob he’ll enjoy depends on you, but also on what he likes most. Don’t hesitate to find out beforehand by asking a few naughty questions. Once your hand is moving, whisper “Do you like that?” or ask what he wants next.
Remember to look at him while you touch him: To arouse a man, look at him while giving him oral sex or masturbating—the results are guaranteed. If you’re shy, you don’t have to look at him 100% of the time. If you’re confident enough, show off your naked big tits while jerking him off.
The transition is seamless: You should feel comfortable masturbating your partner. We’re not talking about love (you can sleep with whoever you want, as long as there’s respect and full consent), though when you’re in love, it might be easier to feel fully confident about masturbating the person you love.
For those who feel uncomfortable, be cautious: mimicking porn videos by exaggerating what you see (please!) isn’t the way to stay calm. Be yourself, don’t force yourself, and if you feel uncomfortable, stop everything and talk about it. If your partner is respectful, everything will go smoothly—if not, just leave because no one deserves that.
Listening to your partner/date and his desires can also involve stimulation first, from a distance: imagine sending a sexy message, for example.
Taking control
When you masturbate your man, you have control over his desires: you hold his penis in your hand, the most sensitive part of his anatomy. When you masturbate a man, you move the skin around his penis. Be aware of stereotypes: you never start masturbating very quickly and roughly; do it slowly.
Remember that not all men masturbate in the same way. Some men prefer a looser technique, focusing on the head of the penis (the tip): in this case, place your hand in the middle of his penis and move upward toward the head, then back down, and so on. Others prefer larger movements: in this case, you can place your hand lower on his penis and move it upward.
Other erogenous zones
To maximize your partner’s pleasure and vary the pace of masturbation, consider touching other parts of the body: why not the testicles, nipples, ears.., depending on what arouses him. However, the biggest secret is stimulating the prostate: it’s a highly erotic zone for men, yet it’s still rarely known! You and your partner will certainly feel comfortable trying this experience, but it’s truly extraordinary.
Speed and rhythm changes
There’s no need to try prostate orgasm in any way: excellent masturbation can be achieved without it. To achieve this, you need to remember to change the rhythm and intensity when stimulating your partner.
Are you ready to try our tips?