What men really think about MILFs

The term MILF seems inseparable from the context of pornography, and although not always, MILFs are always associated with sexually attractive middle-aged women who engage in sexually attractive activities. In the last decade, MILFs have become increasingly popular and even rivaled younger female figures. For some men, middle-aged women are no less attractive than their much younger competitors.

Google Trends at least reveals an interesting fact that over the past five years, MILF-related topics have dominated searches for pornographic content, and many experts predict that this trend will not stop at least for the next decade. We can take MILF wife porno as an example. This content has seen a significant surge in access over the past few days.

But what is MILF?

MILF stands for “Mother I’d Like to Fuck,” referring to women over 40. Those aged between 40 and 50 are generally considered sexually attractive and have a unique appeal—a maternal figure yet sexually stimulating. So, the nurturing qualities of a mother combined with a sensual body and behavior.

The term MILF first gained prominence around 30 years ago, in the 1990s, and one of the earliest recorded uses of the term was in a post on Google Groups by a user named “ChiPhiMike,” who mentioned that some people in New Jersey were using the term MILF to refer to women over 40 who they found sexually appealing. Time went on, and by the late 90s, a character in the film American Pie (John Cho) referred to Jennifer Coolidge as a MILF. Since then, the MILF phenomenon has exploded, and to this day, we seem unable to escape discussions about MILFs.
Some popular porn sites note that searches for MILF content rank second or third in total searches for adult content. For example, in 2021, Pornhub reported that searches for MILF content ranked second after content related to Japan.

But why are MILFs so popular among men?

There is always a reason behind everything, and the same applies to the MILF phenomenon. Some men inherently enjoy being dominated, and these are the ones most likely to be attracted to MILFs. They fantasize about being treated with tenderness by an older woman, who is essentially a representation of their mother but in a sexual context.
There are many MILFs in the world, but they can essentially be divided into two types: dominant and submissive. Dominant MILFs are middle-aged women who are assertive and typically have careers that allow them to impose their will to a certain extent. They have authority (and superiority) and their targets are often “weak men,” who are often aroused by their helplessness in the presence of a woman.

The second type is the submissive MILF, who tends to “submit” to any sexual treatment by her younger partner. They are typically stay-at-home mothers, without a superior career, not assertive in nature, and prone to yielding. Those who prefer this type of MILF are usually assertive and demanding men. They are aroused by imposing their dominance on their older partner, representing their obsession with their mother or older family members.

So?

It can be concluded that the preference for MILFs is a form of sexual sensation that typically begins with a desire to be dominated or to dominate. Like other sexual fantasies, having sex with a MILF is a sexual fantasy that, for some people, is something that must be realized. Most MILF enthusiasts are normal men and cannot be categorized as suffering from sexual disorders. They simply prefer older women—that’s all. However, if such fantasies begin to interfere with someone’s personal life, consulting a sexologist is highly recommended.